Battle of the Sexes and My Love of Other Sports Movies about Badass Women Punching Sexism in the Face

Last week, I watched a movie called Battle of the Sexes, which is about a tennis match that took place on September 20, 1973, between 29-year-old Billie Jean King and 55-year-old Bobbie Riggs at the Astrodome in Houston, Texas. It was amazing, and I watched it partly because I really love Emma Stone (who I found out actually prefers to go by “Emily” because that is her real name. Since there was another Emily Stone in the Screen Actors Guild, she had to go by another first name, and so she chose “Emma” after Emma Bunton, also known as Baby Spice, in The Spice Girls.) I don’t watch much tennis, so I didn’t have a lot of knowledge about this event in history, but I am glad I watched the movie because it was a pivotal moment for not just female players, but for the sports world in general, which has historically been male dominated. I am glad I rented the movie from the library because there are lots of free DVDs at the library and so I don’t have to pay for streaming (I am on a budget.) Also, I had to take the movie back to the library at some point because

Watching this movie reminded me of a documentary that I watched called LFG (an acronym for “Let’s Fucking Go!”). The documentary is about the U.S. women’s soccer team and their fight for equal pay. It features famous players like Megan Rapinoe, and at first, I didn’t think I would be interested in watching it because I don’t watch a lot of sports on TV in general, but after witnessing the #MeToo movement calling out decades of sexual violence and harassment against women, I needed to learn more about gender inequality so that I don’t think that women getting paid less than men is somehow ok. The women’s soccer team went to court several times to advocate for themselves because they were getting paid a lot less than the male soccer players. It was a serious battle of sweat and tears, and watching these women speak out against the injustice they dealt with in the male-dominated soccer world was empowering to see. I am actually glad I watched the documentary, because it is important to be aware of what is happening in the world, and most times I like to just hide under a rock and pretend like gender and racial inequality has nothing to do with me, which is wrong because it doesn’t just affect cisgendered women, it affects everyone. Also, Megan Rapinoe is freaking hot. Just sayin’.

Battle of the Sexes movie reminded me of LFG because in Battle of the Sexes, female tennis players were getting paid much less than the male tennis players and it wasn’t fair. In the movie, Billie Jean King and her manager, Gladys (played brilliantly by comedian Sarah Silverman), approach the promoter of the tennis tournaments, Jack Kramer, and demand that the female tennis players start their own tour because they are getting paid less than the men. However, Jack starts spouting all of these misogynistic beliefs about women competing in tennis and doesn’t budge. Billie and several other female members of the U.S. Lawn Tennis Association, which is the governing board for tennis in the United States of America, start their own tour despite Jack’s objections, and Jack bans them from the U.S. Lawn Tennis Association, leaving them on their own to fund their own tour. The women encounter numerous battles to keep their own tour, and it gets even more complicated when Bobby Riggs, a pro-tennis player for many years who is much older than Billie Jean King, calls her in the middle of the night to propose that Billie and he play a match against each other. At first, Billie doesn’t want to participate, especially because Bobby, like Jack Kramer, holds sexist beliefs about women participating in sports and loves promoting himself. Bobby has a serious gambling addiction, which leads to him draining his money and tension between him and his wife, Priscilla, who has had to put up with his gambling addiction and is fed up. But then, Billie sees Bobby playing against Margaret Ward, and when Margaret loses against him and she sees Bobby walking around, gloating about his success, it provokes Billie to accept Bobby’s offer to play against her in a match called Battle of the Sexes, where female tennis players play matches against male tennis players.

Also, Billie Jean King realizes that she doesn’t really want to be with her husband, Larry, after she falls in love with Marilyn, her hairdresser. When Billie and the other female tennis players are getting their hair done for their public appearances, Billie meets her hairdresser, Marilyn (played by Andrea Riseborough) and they develop serious chemistry for one another. Even though Billie tries to act like she is in love with her husband, she realizes that she is a lesbian and her and Marilyn start seeing each other in private. They go to a party, and even though Billie tells her she is married, Marilyn knows that Billie is sexually attracted to her, and there is one scene where the song “Crimson and Clover” is playing and Billie declines to dance with Marilyn, so Marilyn dances with a random guy at the club, but as she sits at the bar and sips her drink, she watches how Marilyn dances with him and she sees Marilyn peering into her eyes. Marilyn and Billie end up having sex in Billie’s hotel room, and Billie tries to keep it a secret, but her tennis rival, Margaret Court, sees Billie and Marilyn leaving their hotel room together when Gladys has the female soccer players check out of the hotel so they can continue their tour. Margaret sees them together but doesn’t say anything to them, but then tells her husband that Billie is a lesbian and that Marilyn is not just a friend but is actually her lover. When Larry, Billie’s husband, travels to assist Billie with preparing for her tennis tournament, he finds a bra that isn’t Billie’s in her room and realizes that Billie has been having an affair with Marilyn. Even though Larry feels betrayed and that Billie lied to him, he continues to support her. There is a really memorable scene when Larry confronts Marilyn one evening and tells her that she and Billie need to end their relationship, not just because he is Billie’s husband but because Billie is focused on her career as a tennis player and the affair would distract from her achieving her goals.

Even though I haven’t gone through the struggles Billie had gone through in her tennis career, I kind of related to the idea of focusing on your career instead of a relationship. I remember when I fell in love for the first time with this guy in India and I thought that love was supposed to be this intoxicating thing where it was just you and the other person together, and nothing else mattered. However, I realized that this relationship didn’t need to be the center of my life because I had so many hobbies and extracurricular activities (and, of course, graduating from college) to focus on. Even though I am glad that my boyfriend and I stayed in touch during my last semester, I think it was best for us to separate eventually because we had grown apart. Not having that physical intimacy was hard for both of us, and I was just too preoccupied with a lot of stuff in my personal life to focus solely on this relationship. Also, I was chanting a lot for his happiness and I’m sure he has found a relationship where his needs are fulfilled, and he can be truly happy. Recently I developed feelings for a close friend, but at some point, they found someone else. I was pretty heartbroken, to be honest, but after chanting about it, it made more sense to just focus on my professional and personal development. A lot of times, the fleeting crushes I’ve had on guys have been a form of escapism to distract me from whatever painful stuff I was dealing with in life. I guess I’m glad that those guys were in other relationships because I realized that I wanted to focus on my personal goals, like my blog and other stuff I’m striving towards. I may want a relationship in the future, but I want to be with someone who supports my goals and doesn’t want to make me the center of their life. I want us to have our own personal hobbies and interests outside of the relationship.

I really love Steve Carrell’s acting in Battle of the Sexes. I didn’t know anything about Bobby Riggs before watching the movie, but after seeing it, all I could think was, Man, this guy was a hustler. But Steve plays him so well. Bobby Riggs completely underestimated Billie’s potential to beat him in the tennis match, and he even admitted to it when she won the match against him. Bobby and the men in the movie make all sorts of degrading statements about the female tennis players, saying they should stay in the kitchen and not be on the tennis courts, or that they are biologically not fit to compete in tennis tournaments. While watching the movie, I kept groaning every time they made these kinds of gross sexist comments, but I also had to remember that this was the 1970s and before the #MeToo movement called all that out. Of course, even if it’s 2025 and there is more discussion about reproductive rights and dismantling sexism, we still have a long way to go in establishing policies that treat cisgender women and trans women with the respect they deserve and afford them basic human rights. That’s why I love watching historical movies, because we need to learn from the past not just so we don’t repeat it in the future, but so that we can see people like Billie Jean King who broke through gender barriers and think, Dang, if she can persevere through all this sexism and men putting her down, then I can achieve my goals too even if I deal with a lot of obstacles along the way.

When I watched another tennis movie called King Richard, I felt so empowered seeing how Venus and Serena Williams fought not only sexism, but also racism, to win all these championships, and how they still stayed down-to-earth even with all of their success. There was this part in Citizen that really stuck with me, and that was when Rankine is talking about a tennis match during which Serena’s rival, a Danish tennis player named Caroline Wozniacki, impersonated Serena Williams’s curvy figure by stuffing her shirt and skirt with tissue paper and prancing around the tennis court, flaunting her fake “curves” and imitating Serena. I checked the comments from 2011 when they posted a video of her doing the impression while in a tennis match with another player, and while I understand that for many people this was harmless and Caroline was just trying to be funny, after reading Claudia Rankine’s take on it, I can see why Caroline’s impersonation was racist to many other people. Sure, Caroline didn’t put cork on her face and paint her lips red, but still, when you look at it from the perspective of US History, it was just as bad as an 1890s minstrel show. Of course, I do not know Serena or Caroline personally, but I am guessing they are friends and that Serena didn’t take it the wrong way. However, after learning more about the history of Jim Crow and blackface in the U.S. while I was in college, I realized that for Caroline, a white woman from Denmark who didn’t know anything about the history of slavery and racism in the U.S., it seemed like harmless fun, but viewed from a U.S.-centric context, it was offensive. Before reading Citizen by Claudia Rankine, I didn’t know much about the racism that Serena and Venus had to deal with as Black tennis players in predominantly white male spaces, but reading Rankine’s book made me more aware of all of the shit they had to deal with as Black women in a space where people gave them the message that they did not belong there. Of course, they have proven the haters wrong so, so many times with Grand Slam championships and other awards. However, it’s important for me to remember all the blood, sweat, tears and discrimination that they dealt with during their long careers. However, I was so encouraged to see the Gen-Z-aged tennis player Naomi Osaka, who is half-Haitian and half-Japanese, competing in the Australian Open and winning the tournament. To be honest, I don’t watch many sports on television, but my orchestra teacher from college told me about the Australian Open because he loves tennis. With nothing to do and nowhere to go that day (it was 2021 and I was able to work from home during that time and didn’t have to go anywhere), I woke up at 2 am to watch Naomi play against Jennifer Brady. Watching the Australian Open was FIERCE.

Overall, I thought Battle of the Sexes was a great movie, and I recommend that you see it.

Battle of the Sexes. 2017. Directed by Valerie Faris and Jonathan Dayton. Running time: 2 hours 2 minutes. Genre: Sports/Comedy/Drama. Starring Emma Stone, Steve Carrell, Andrea Riseborough and Sarah Silverman. Rated PG-13 for some sexual content and partial nudity.